Breaking The Ice

So you're at a party, a bar, a coffeehouse or wherever and you see someone who catches your eyes. What do you do? Would you just stand in your spot staring, praying and hoping he/she will notice you and hopefully they will like what they see and approach you? Maybe that's why you're still single, buddy.Of course, it can be nerve-wracking approaching somebody. It all comes down to fear of rejection. But somebody got to do it, right? Now gather up your confidence and go for it.

Sure, the risk of them not being available or not finding you worthy of a conversation is high but the chance of you hitting the dating jackpot is also much higher than winning the lottery. Be confident, it's not very attractive if you stumble for words but be careful not to appear cocky. Start with simple ice-breaking lines like "Hi. Having a good time?" or anything that doesn't seem out of place. You want to avoid being too aggressive or come on too strong.

Having a sense of humor helps a whole lot because you don't want to bore them. The first few lines of the conversation is the 'make or break' period, after that if they still appear to be interested in having a conversation then you basically make it pass the first step so keep the conversation casual and get to know them. And if they start looking away or even yawning, don't fool yourself that they're still interested. Move on and don't push it further.

As the old saying goes, there're plenty of fishes in the sea.I know how most women would rather not make the first move but here's a secret. Men like being approached. It doesn't just boost their ego but also makes things a lot easier because they might not have the nerve to approach you themselves. So be a little aggressive and take control!.

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By: Peter Portero